I met Lori when I was pregnant with my second child, seeking a different experience following a traumatic and medicalized birth of my first. Not really knowing what I wanted, other than something different, Lori steadily guided me back to myself. Lori’s understanding of birth is incredible and her trust in mother and baby in unwavering. She is humble and passionate in supporting women as they find their empowerment. I’m forever grateful for the transformation and beautifully healing birth I experienced with Lori by my side.
J.H
I wake up at 4am to urinate and the pink bloody discharge is present. I labour alone in bed and it feels good. My husband calls off work and we let our birth attendant know to come over at 530am. Our birth attendant arrives at about 7am, and instantly all my surges slow way down, and become weaker. I’m immediately bummed and feel guilt wash over me. I felt like I wanted to hide so my husband and I went for a nap in bed. Our birth attendant left but stayed closeby. We woke up, I was surging again. My husband and I upped the oxytocin using our own methods and it really kicked off. I felt an insanely powerful surge and I moaned hitting this frequency which took me somewhere indescribable. It took me right back to my first birth when he was coming down my birth canal. “Am I going to have the baby right here in bed?!” I yelled. That was so extremely pleasurable. It was about 1:30pm when this happened and in retrospect this was where active labour really kicked off.
I called my birth attendant, I entered the birth pool and had surges, enjoying the experience. My husband set up his photo lights and snapped away. He entered the pool with me even though I was doing well. He was holding me, re-assuring me, coaching me; if you don’t know him it is impossible to understand how connected he makes me feel. A goal of mine was to really connect to the power of my throat chakra so every surge I used my voice in any way I could. My husband and I played our favourite music and cried together, re-affirmed our love for each other, and it was epicly beautiful. The sensations were overwhelming so we put on a 25 minute hypnobirthing track on repeat. This time I felt so connected to my body and I knew baby was close. My husband was jiggling my hips and it helped so much to alleviate the pain. All of a sudden POP! I yelled “baby moved!” It snapped me back to reality. Baby came down the canal so fast, I reached down and felt baby’s head and ear. It wasn’t me that pushed baby out, it was my body. I went to grab him but couldn’t see because of the bloody water. I found him and picked him up. This was our dream birth. I did it. The rite of passage. I took back my power. My sovereignty.
E.M
I'm so very thankful that you could be there throughout my pregnancy journey. We feel so fortunate to have had you present for the birth of our son. Investing your LOVE and CARE into both the emotional and physical aspects of Childbirth. You're truly AMAZING.
A.P
This is so hard to write because there are truly no words that best describe my gratitude for you coming into our lives to venture through this journey together. You were the perfect match for me and somehow thank you doesn't feel like enough but thank you. your ability to bring peace and wisdom to every scenario I thought up was amazing and I'm so appreciative of your steadfastness, light, love and peace you brought with you in each text, email and visit. Your grace, beauty and loving understanding of me and our needs was felt at every moment. You are truly a blessing and I can see why God chose you to be with me. Thank you, thank you.
M.K
Thank you so much for attending our birth and for checking in on me post partum. We are so thankful we got to have that experience, and praise our Lord for it!
Thank you for all you did to make it what we wanted and in safety of me and our precious baby.
K.D
Thank you so very much for your help and loving support throughout my pregnancy, birth and our post-partum! You have helped make the experience so beautiful and we will always see you as someone very special to us and especially to our baby! Praising God for bringing you into our lives! It’s so amazing to have someone like you supporting woman to have the birth experiences they deserve!
L.H
The main reason I hired Lori was to have a birth attendant at my rural homebirth- somewhere the medical system would not go. I knew I wanted to know my birth support team and be in my home and not be in a new environment surrounded by strangers. One of my biggest mental hurdles from my first birth was when to leave the house to go to the birth location. This time, the only question was - when do I text Lori?! I knew from my first birth experience that I would only text her when I was “undeniably” in labor. On my baby’s birthday, I woke up at 2:45am with contractions. After pacing, moaning, and being unable to lie down or be on my own, I told my husband I was going to text Lori. This was 3:24am. At 3:29am, labor was “undeniable” and I texted: Please come.
She arrived 30 min later, encouraging me, suggesting a position change, and started massaging my back and hips. As contractions increased in intensity and speed she reminded me to breathe. Other than that, she never told me how to do things, which is what I wanted- independence and trust. After I pushed out my intact bag of waters about 10cm out of my body, I broke it open and pushed out my baby a while later at 5:06am. It was a 2.5-hour labor. Lori was literally observing and encouraging me as I pushed instinctively, picked up my baby, and held him for the first time. I felt supported by her presence but empowered by her lack of intervention. She was there when I needed her and was someone I trusted throughout the process. I’m so grateful for my first home birth experience and for the role Lori played in supporting me and my husband with the birth of our son.
B.S